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There's No Place Like Home

There's No Place Like Home

The reality of working from home

by Janie Emaus (Mon Oct 12, 2009)
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Your children are grown. Your house is nice and quiet. So, when your boss offers you the opportunity to work from home, you want to jump on it, right? What could be more ideal? No traffic. No one looking over your shoulder. No dressing to impress co-workers. No make-up. No problem.   

Well, as one who has worked from home for many years, let me go over the pros and cons with you before you make that all important decision.   

Working from home does have many benefits. The most obvious one being able to sleep until the last possible second and still log-in on time. No matter the square footage of your house, getting to your office should be quite easy. You shouldn't encounter any traffic through your living room, and your hallway should be smooth sailing. For those of you not living alone, you might experience the occasional ‘husband/partner/roommate/holdup' at the point where your kitchen merges into your office. But you can swerve around this obstacle with a quick smile and promise to catch up later in the day. 

Another obvious perk involves your attire. You can work in whatever you've slept in. Unless of course, your boss has installed a Skype camera. If you have a say in this matter, it's most beneficial to vote no, unless you harbor the exhibitionist gene, in which case, you probably wouldn't accept the ‘working-from-home' offer in the first place.

A further perk is that you can sneak in some personal e-mails and web surfing throughout the day - although, you're really not sneaking because no one is watching.

This is all very well and good and makes working from home seem quite appealing. But there is a down side which you really need to consider before accepting this opportunity.       

First, there is no face-to-face contact while on your breaks. You can chat with the photos of family and friends that you have plastered on your refrigerator. And because you don't get any disagreeable answers from them, this may sit well with you at first. But after a time, you start to long for those inter-office dialogues - especially those which end in heated arguments and threats to report insignificant behavior to the Human Resources Department.

Which leads into my next point. With no one to talk to, you're completely devoid of company gossip. You know, that juicy data that floats around from department to department and finally lands on the subject's desk taken completely out of context? But whether you want to admit it or not, gossip adds a little spice to the day and makes those boring tasks a little more bearable. When you work from home, you may end up talking to yourself. But gossiping to yourself about yourself, well, that could be grounds for psychiatric help.

And don't forget the other social aspects. Or lack thereof. There are no cute men to flirt with (whether married or not, many women do like to flirt) and no UPS or Fedex delivery guy to create a fantasy about. Although most companies frown on employees dating each other, it happens all the time. So, for single women looking for an office romance, working alone may not be an attractive option.

Finally, and perhaps most importantly, there is no co-worker to share a drink with at Happy Hour. You can meet yourself out on the patio for a cocktail, but that can be a bit boring since you've been with yourself all day. 

In the end, you must weigh the good against the bad. In my case, I've decided that despite some of the lonely hours, I'm too accustomed to working alone, without constant supervision. And although I do get a bit lonely, I've decided that I am pretty good company.

So, if you'll excuse me, I had better get back to work. I hear myself calling. 

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Posted Fri Nov 6, 2009 at 5:49 am Reply Delete
Maryann - I'm glad you enjoyed my article. Working from home is the only way to go.Report Abuse
Maryann
Posted Tue Nov 3, 2009 at 4:14 am Reply Delete
You nailed it on the head. You had me laughing! All of the things that I love about working from home and all of the things I don't like about it. So now I solved the problem of loneliness by using skype to keep in touch with my friends. We can skype throughout the day and even vent when necessary. But the flirting well that's still a little tough. Rainy days are the best. Love your writing!Report Abuse
TERI
Posted Thu Oct 22, 2009 at 4:41 am Reply Delete
This is so great!!! I do work from home and agree with it all, I also live alone...I have my music on, sipping my coffee in jammies. I tried the office thing and at 10:am SHARP it was time for me to take a break whether I needed it or not! Having to go to lunch at a certain time even if Im not hungry, it was all so unlike my independent lifestyle. Trade off for me is no steady income....but its worth the higher price I would pay to be captive to an office and all the caddy gossip!!!Report Abuse
Pam
Posted Mon Oct 19, 2009 at 12:20 pm Reply Delete
Janie - you are so funny! It's true, though, there is a trade-off. I used to 'tele-commute' and although I love missing traffic to and from my job, I really missed the people I worked with. And then, when I came into work (I tele-commuted 3of the 5 days) it seemed to me that all I did was 'catch up' with everyone, which made me have to work harder at home! Still, I would do it again, because: no commute plus working in jammies equals happy camper. Great post!!Report Abuse
Posted Wed Oct 14, 2009 at 8:46 pm Reply Delete
Yvettte - It is nice and peaceful. And on a rainy day like today, I 'm getting a lot done.Report Abuse
Posted Wed Oct 14, 2009 at 8:45 pm Reply Delete
Cathie, how lucky that you get to walk on the beach at lunch. I wouldn't want to go back to work.Report Abuse
Yvette
Posted Wed Oct 14, 2009 at 7:58 pm Reply Delete
Great article. After working in a large office and taking some time off from it, I realized the peace and sanctity being at home really gave me. I have a better understanding and appreciation of the words "day off, vacation time and PTO" really mean.Report Abuse
Cathie
Posted Wed Oct 14, 2009 at 3:09 pm Reply Delete
I love working from home. If I need to talk to someone, there is always social media. The quiet helps me to think and get things done and I can take walks on the beach at lunch. Yes and another advantage is I don't get dressed till noon.Report Abuse
Posted Tue Oct 13, 2009 at 11:34 pm Reply Delete
Cindi - Asking for permission to use the bathroom! Give me my home office any day.Report Abuse
Arlie
Posted Tue Oct 13, 2009 at 11:09 pm Reply Delete
I loved this. Is it hard navigating through your house to your office???Report Abuse
Posted Tue Oct 13, 2009 at 1:52 am Reply Delete
Despite the isolation, I will take working at home any day over doing time in an office where you can still feel isolated and, no, you can't saunter out to the patio and meet yourself for a cocktail (which isn't so bad!) Sometimes you can't even go to the bathroom without someone's permission. Ergh.Report Abuse
Sheila
Posted Mon Oct 12, 2009 at 9:37 pm Reply Delete
I love it! There's no harm in catching a particularly interesting guest on The View from time to time either...is there?Report Abuse
Posted Mon Oct 12, 2009 at 7:53 pm Reply Delete
Linda - self discipline is a must. Fortunately, Jenny, I do not have Skype. And I'm always up for the pub.Report Abuse
jo
Posted Mon Oct 12, 2009 at 7:44 pm Reply Delete
Jenny, the pub is always a good idea!Report Abuse
Posted Mon Oct 12, 2009 at 7:23 pm Reply Delete
You can be seen on skype? Ah, that explains a lot, sorry boss. That was a really informative piece, I think it would be the lonliness I would find hard to cope with, but who knows, you could set up a network of other home workers just like home educators do. You could meet at coffee break and go to the pub after a long day. Good idea no? xReport Abuse
Tina
Posted Mon Oct 12, 2009 at 6:59 pm Reply Delete
Great points by you and others, Janie. For me, working at home works best...and I feel lucky that I've been able to do that for most of my kids' lives.Report Abuse
LindaO
Posted Mon Oct 12, 2009 at 6:35 pm Reply Delete
I've also worked from home for a long time, Janie. I love it, but self-discipline is definitely important. I've grown less efficient in my use of time--a problem I'm determined to fix. I enjoyed working part-time in an office outside my home to get the benefits of both!Report Abuse
Posted Mon Oct 12, 2009 at 6:11 pm Reply Delete
Ladies - Thank you so much for your comments. Tammy - yes, you do have to be disciplined. It's all too easy to start surfing the net, reading blogs and playing Scrabble on Facebook!Report Abuse
Terry
Posted Mon Oct 12, 2009 at 5:42 pm Reply Delete
I love all of your reasons, but for me it sounds like depression!!! I like to get dressed and I love the energy of the office. Thank God we all like different things.Report Abuse
Cori
Posted Mon Oct 12, 2009 at 4:10 pm Reply Delete
I telecommute on Wednesdays because I work London hours from the US that day. I think anyone considering working from home full time should consider trying it out on a part time or temporary basis to see if it suits you.Report Abuse
Tammy
Posted Mon Oct 12, 2009 at 4:00 pm Reply Delete
Thanks for the post, Janie - but I think you forgot to mention one of the biggest challenges in working from home, especially if you're self-employed. There's a lot more self-discipline required to keep you on track. When I worked in the corporate world, there was always someone asking for whatever I was working on. Now that I work for myself, the deadlines aren't as "hard" because it's too easy to convince myself that this "research" or other diversion is an acceptable alternative to doing the required tasks at hand to keep the business moving forward. (like taking time to read and comment on blog posts, perhaps?.....hmmm) Tammy Slater-Kendrick http://www.TensDiet.com 10 daily activities, 10 minutes or less, 10 pounds per monthReport Abuse
Paula
Posted Mon Oct 12, 2009 at 2:46 pm Reply Delete
Great article...I work from home and you conveyed all the aspects very well. I do miss the social aspect...being a very social girl....but love the flexibility and no one peeking over my shoulders to see what I'm doing or not doingReport Abuse
Grizzlybear
Posted Mon Oct 12, 2009 at 2:29 pm Reply Delete
I love solitude, which almost certainly assures PEACE and QUIET! I don't like gossip...don't approve of people who gossip; I don't drink or smoke or flirt. I love talking to myself and my dog, so I don't really miss people. Well, I DO miss them......... like I would miss a toothache! (Just kidding...a little!)Report Abuse
Posted Mon Oct 12, 2009 at 12:54 pm Reply Delete
I agree with everything you wrote but I would also like to add..... for me when I worked at home my hours tended to be longer. It would be 2am and I would wake up and remember something. The comfort of working at home also means your job is always there. I still liked my home office best tho.Report Abuse
Ginny
Posted Mon Oct 12, 2009 at 11:34 am Reply Delete
I work from home - and I do miss the social aspect of an office. It gets so bad sometimes that I end up desperate to talk to anyone - even someone who has phoned the wrong number.Report Abuse

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